​COMPASSION IS BEING WITH

Compassion isn’t easy. It’s a challenging choice to stand with others in their weakness, vulnerability, loneliness, and brokenness. Often, our first instinct is to avoid suffering—either by trying to fix it quickly or by distancing ourselves from it. We’re conditioned to be active and productive, wanting to prove our worth by making a visible difference. Yet, in this pursuit, we can overlook one of our greatest gifts: the ability to stand in true solidarity with those who are hurting.

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True compassion means showing up without needing to “do” anything to solve or lessen the pain. It’s about being fully present, even when we don’t know the right words to say. Just by being there, with patience and understanding, we can revive a struggling spirit. In small gestures—a held hand, shared tears, or a sigh of empathy—we open up space for a new kind of connection.

This shared experience breaks down walls and leads to something profound: the fellowship of the broken. In this fellowship, we find that our shared vulnerability is what unites us and brings comfort. Compassion reminds us that while we can’t take away every pain, we can walk alongside each other, offering presence and peace in the journey.
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Peace,
Travis Segar
Pastor for Care and Community